Many people struggle to juggle work and personal life, especially for mums who want to contribute their best at work and raise their children. The good news is that you can do both, and in this article, we explore how you can juggle being a working-from-home mum.
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Working from home with your little ones only a few feet away can be challenging. To tackle this obstacle, you need to plan and prepare accordingly.
Meeting deadlines when your child cries in the next room to play with you, attending conference calls during feeding times or brainstorming with colleagues while your 3-year-old refuses the clothes you’ve prepared the night before for her to wear in the daycare are a few examples of things that may stress you out when you are a working-from-home-mum.
Sleep loss, when your toddler is teething, can affect your ability to do your job efficiently. The emotional and physical exhaustion, because you try to do everything flawlessly, can make you feel that nothing is enough, and making dinner after a tense day at work can seem one of the most tiring tasks on the planet. Yet all these issues are fixable as soon as you understand that being a working-from-home-mum requires a lot of ongoing readjustment.
Allow yourself time to adjust to this new reality and forgive yourself for not having all the answers. You are always trying and will figure them out one step at a time.
To be successful in this essential endeavour, you need all hands on deck: rally up your family, friends, and colleagues and use an early learning centre to ensure the proper development of your child.
Ensure someone takes care of your child while you’re focusing on your work. This way, the little ones will receive the attention they need, and you’ll get more done at work more effectively.
Seek out people who can listen and support you. Join a parenting group or a play group. Even if your little one is too young to play with the other children now, you’ll appreciate exchanging ideas with other working mums.
Check if your employer has an affinity group for parents; if not, consider starting one yourself. Seek professional help to tackle your emotional hurdles and navigate the bumps of your professional and personal life.
Taking your child to an early learning centre such as Bright Beginnings for a few hours will enable you to focus on working stress-free and without interruptions.
An early learning centre provides your children with essential benefits:
Ensure that when you are working, you are not getting distracted by the thought that your child is nearby. To maintain your focus, find a place in your home separated from the room where your child plays and dive into your work for maximum efficiency. Agree with the ones caring for your little one that they will not interrupt you unless needed.
Gain more effectiveness by grouping tasks based on their complexity and common characteristics. For instance, you can group the tasks that entail a higher degree of coordination, like answering emails and setting up meetings and have another batch of tasks that require more concentration, such as planning and writing a pitch or developing new ideas.
Another significant element is to agree on the expectations your colleagues have for you. Communicate clearly and regularly on ongoing projects, accept reasonable deadlines, but don’t accommodate requirements you know you can’t honour. If you are asked to do too much in a short time, propose tradeoffs. For example, if you do one task faster than usual, you receive more time for another.
Another tip for maintaining focus is addressing tasks based on energy levels. You can manage challenging tasks when you feel more energised (in the morning, for example) and attend the ones that require interaction with others later in the day.
It’s essential to be as focused as possible so you can give your full attention to your child after your working schedule is over.
You can be a working-from-home mum in two ways: work for an employer or yourself.
If you worked for an employer before becoming a mum but find it difficult to resume work because of fixed terms like tight deadlines, you can opt to work independently. You can start your blog, make crafts and sell them on specialised platforms or start the business you always wanted.
Aside from creating a business plan, getting the funds you need for the initial investment into your company, and finding suppliers and customers, there is a crucial element you need to consider when starting your business from home: have faith in your ability to make it work.
Working independently is not a walk in the park. You no longer have an employer who pays your salary monthly, and the prospect of not having money to fulfil essential needs while having one or more children can be daunting. But there are also advantages:
It can be challenging to do it, especially if people around you say you should forget about it and get a “real” job. You need all your strength to pass these discouragements and believe in yourself. If you have been able to work for somebody else, you can work for yourself! Even if your company will not have a skyrocketing profit in a few months, be persistent! The patience, skills, and passion you put into it will eventually make your business very profitable.
The short answer: it depends. It depends on your lifestyle, the income you had before becoming a stay-at-home mum and the expenses you can eliminate once you make this step.
There are areas where you can cut down costs, such as:
Many times, after a long day at the office, the last thing you want to do when you get home is prepare dinner. Hence, you may often order takeout or dinner at a nearby restaurant. You are more likely to eat at home when you are a stay-at-home mum. That helps you save money. The same goes for the money you used to spend on lunch when you had a job: you can replace those sometimes expensive choices with healthier, cheaper homemade meals.
Depending on how far from home your job is, you can save significant amounts of money when you no longer have to commute to and from work with public transportation or a personal car. The same goes for the high spending on taxis or Uber when you are late for work because, for example, your little ones didn’t get up in time for kindergarten or school.
Being a stay-at-home home means you will no longer need to buy office clothes for every season or every time a new trend starts in the office. And you won’t need to wash, iron or dry clean your office clothes every week. That translates into lower energy and water bills and a reduction in the money you pay for new clothes, detergent or dry cleaning. This doesn’t mean you will wear sweatpants every day (unless you choose to), but your budget will welcome the cost cuts.
Becoming a working-from-home mum is not an easy decision. It can affect raising your child, your career future and your emotional well-being. But if you do it in a planned manner, its benefits will be worth your effort. Being close to your child to care for him, satisfy his basic needs (such as feeding or soothing his crying) or guide him when he navigates the complex world of interactions with peers in kindergarten or school is one of the most rewarding parenting experiences.
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The day’s routines are flexible. At the same time, care is taken to recognise and respect each child’s needs.
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